FAKTOR-FAKTOR OBJEKTIF DAN SUBJEKTIF  YANG MEMPREDIKSI MINDFUL PARENTING PADA IBU DI INDONESIA

Dewi Kumalasari; Endang Fourianalistyawati

doi:10.24156/jikk.2021.14.1.52

Dewi Kumalasari Universitas YARSI
Endang Fourianalistyawati University of Wisconsin

DOI: https://doi.org/10.24156/jikk.2021.14.1.52

Keywords: kognisi pengasuhan, mindful parenting, pengetahuan pengasuhan efektif, tingkat pendidikan, usia ibu

Abstract

Studi terdahulu menemukan sejumlah faktor yang memengaruhi mindful parenting secara terpisah. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk menganalisis pengaruh faktor objektif dan subjektif terhadap mindful parenting pada ibu di Indonesia. Kognisi pengasuhan dalam penelitian ini terdiri atas kognisi pengasuhan positif yang diwakili oleh rasa kompeten pengasuhan dan kognisi pengasuhan negatif yang diwakili oleh atribusi berpusat pada orang tua. Penelitian ini menggunakan pendekatan kuantitatif dengan desain cross-sectional. Penelitian ini melibatkan 171 ibu yang memiliki anak usia 3-12 tahun dan dipilih melalui teknik insidental sampling. Berdasarkan analisis regresi berganda, didapatkan hasil bahwa kognisi pengasuhan yang positif dalam bentuk rasa kompeten pengasuhan dan kognisi pengasuhan negatif dalam bentuk atribusi berpusat pada orang tua dapat memprediksi mindful parenting pada ibu di Indonesia. Sementara itu, faktor-faktor objektif yang meliputi usia ibu, tingkat pendidikan, dan pengetahuan tentang pengasuhan efektif ditemukan tidak berpengaruh signifikan terhadap mindful parenting. Hal ini mengindikasikan bahwa pembentukan kognisi pengasuhan yang positif dan menghindari kognisi pengasuhan yang negatif dapat meningkatkan keterampilan mindful parenting. Untuk itu, orang-orang di sekeliling ibu juga diharapkan dapat memberikan dukungan bagi para ibu agar merasa kompeten di dalam mengasuh anak.

Author Biographies

Dewi Kumalasari, Universitas YARSI

Fakultas Psikologi, Universitas YARSI, Terakreditasi B

Endang Fourianalistyawati, University of Wisconsin

School of Human Ecology, University of Wisconsin, Amerika Serikat

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